If your older loved one lives in a memory care community, it is important to prioritize visits as a way to nurture your relationship and provide comfort. While these visits can sometimes feel daunting, with a little preparation and patience, they can become moments of joy and bonding for both you and your loved one. Here are some tips to make the most of your visits to a memory care community.
Take time to prepare for the visit.
Before your visit, take some time to familiarize yourself with your loved one’s current routine and cognitive abilities. Reach out to the care team to determine the best time to visit—ideally when your loved one is well-rested and most alert. Bringing familiar items like photo albums, favorite music, or cherished keepsakes can help spark positive memories and encourage meaningful conversations. Thoughtful planning ensures your visit occurs when your loved one is most comfortable, creating the foundation for a more enjoyable and heartfelt experience.
Engage through simple activities.
Participating in activities together can help encourage connection and reduce the pressure of having ongoing conversation. Consider working on a puzzle together, flipping through a photo book, or even folding laundry. Simple eye contact, hand holding, or simply sitting together can communicate love and support, even without words.
Lean on the care team.
The memory care team at Kauhale is here to support you and your loved one. If you’re unsure about how to approach your visit or need help during your time together, don’t hesitate to ask for our guidance.
Avoid sensitive topics.
During your visit, focus on positive and light-hearted topics rather than challenging subjects like current events or their memory loss. Instead, talk about topics that bring comfort or joy, such as shared memories, favorite hobbies, or upcoming events they can look forward to. If your loved one becomes confused or upset, gently redirect the conversation to something more familiar.
Show patience and empathy.
Your loved one might not always recognize you or recall recent events. Rather than correcting or challenging their memory, try to meet them in their current reality. By being understanding and supportive, you can help feel comfortable, even if they appear confused in the moment.
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Visiting your senior loved one in memory care can evoke a range of emotions, from sadness to frustration. However, with thoughtful preparation, a focus on meaningful connection, and a willingness to embrace the moment, you can foster interactions that deepen your bond and ease the challenges often associated with these visits.
For more tips or support, talk to our team at Kauhale. We’re here to help make your visits as meaningful and enjoyable as possible.
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